Hey ABCDE Readers!
I’m Kyla Ford from FordOlogy.
I am honored to be here today sharing some of my experiences on becoming a mother.
I am very excited for Eryka as she prepares to bring not one, but TWO babies into the world.
She’s a RockStar!
When I got pregnant the first time it was pure bliss.
Ok, I had some nausea, but no major sickness or complications and my husband and I were THRILLED to be bringing a baby into the world.
I don’t remember feeling too nervous or any type of anxiety that I wasn’t ready to be a mother.
We had so much fun shopping for nursery furniture, clothes and preparing for his big arrival.
We would talk to and rub my belly everyday and take photos of my growing tummy weekly.
During my pregnancy with my son I watched so many friends stress and worry about labor and delivery, eating JUST RIGHT, working out and having a “birth plan” set in stone.
For some reason I never felt the pressure to follow all these “pregnancy trends”.
I did work out a few days a week, took my vitamins, tried to watch what I ate (which is hard when that bean burrito craving kicks in 10x’s a day) and made sure I wasn’t completely clueless when I got to that big day.
We took a tour of the delivery wing, watched a few YouTube videos, talked to some of our friends/family about their experiences and talked a lot with my doctor.
After lots of prayers, Kevin and I decided that we had done all we could do.
We felt that as long as we were at the hospital, we were where we needed to be if something went wrong with the baby or I.
I felt that labor/delivery was so different for every mom that I couldn’t possibly make a plan and have it go accordingly.
And that is exactly what happened.
Our son, Hunter, was born at 36 weeks and 6 days. He scored 8/9 on his Apgar test but after a few minutes of monitoring the nurses noticed his breathing was off.
When we went home, more then a week later, he was still on oxygen, which he had for another month.
It was one of the hardest/heart wrenching experiences I have experienced.
Nothing like I had imagined it all to go, but I am so grateful that I was inspired to have the “whatever happens, happens and it’s in the Lords hands” attitude.
It taught me so much, especially patience and trust.
Patience with the process of bringing a baby into the world and trust that the Lord has a plan, and it’s the best plan even if it’s not what you planned.
It has helped me along the way to trust my motherly instincts when it has come to raising my child and making decisions regarding his health and well being.
I honestly feel that as the mother you will KNOW what is right for you and your baby as you both transition into your new roles as parent and child.
We are so excited to be welcoming baby #2, a little girl, due Valentines Day.
I have felt a little more anxiety this time as it sinks in I will have TWO KIDS under 20 month, but I could not be more excited that my family is growing.
It is such an incredible honor to be a mother.
It’s unimaginably rewarding and equally challenging.
I wouldn’t trade one day I have had with my son.
I have enjoyed the good, learned from the bad and mentally/emotionally grown as a woman and daughter of God.
Thanks for letting me share my story Eryka.
Good Luck with the new little ones.
You will be an incredible mother.
See ya Readers!
Be sure to swing by and visit us over at Ford-Ology!






























