Hey its Eryka, I am not only on Jessica's blog but also over here today too! Go take a look at me talking about books on te and baby. :)
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Hi ABCDE, I am Jessica over at Before The I Do's. I am so excited that Eryka & I are swapping blogs today talking weddings. I am spilling details of my BIG day while she is reminiscing about her big day!!! So when you are done reading about the plans, head on over to my little corner to read how her day went!!
Here goes nothing or everything, you decide.
1. When are you getting married?
I will be a married lady on October 13,2012
2. Why did you pick that date?
Back to 2010 when I got engaged, I was in NO hurry to get married. I know every girls dream is to have that dream wedding we have been planning since we were able to walk but not this girl. I wanted to finish school & close a few more chapters in my life before writing this one. It will be 2 years that we have been engaged in November.
One day I was looking through the calendar trying to decide if and when I wanted to get married. I ALWAYS thought I would want an August wedding. I have no idea why. But I was wrong. October 13th just jumped out at me. 1. October is my favorite month, not just because my birthday is the 5th {mark your calendars & let me know if you need my address.....wink wink} 2. Fall is my favorite season 3. It is the start of desert season {I have grown up there my WHOLE life} & 4. most important #13 is my favorite number. I was 13 all through high school for sports & everything. All my FAVORITE things in one.
3. What are you wedding colors?
Both of my colors are from david's bridal.
Candy Apple Red
{A's favorite color is red so I thought I would include something of him, after all it is both of our big day}
&& We are doing Regency Purple
we are including black, platinum & white. I sure hope it all goes together well.
4. Where are you getting married?
I am getting married at a golf course called Castle Creek in Southern California
**i took these pictures off the website**
They just redid their bar & have a beautiful ball room that over looks the golf course
5. Do you have your cake design?
Yes, actually I was going to have my little sister's aunt do my cake, but sadly things just didn't work out. I was looking online for a wedding cake designer and came across No More Boring Cakes. Jen was on Fabulous cakes on TLC, I think I found a winner.
I want my cake to look something like
Just in my purple & red
Do you all think that is a good wedding cake?
6. Where are you going for your bachelorette party?
As I live only 4 hours away from it, we are going to VEGAS BABY!!! I really can't wait to spend a weekend with my favorite girls & my mom.
if any of you are free August 17-19th & would like to join, please do so!! It is going to be a great weekend!!!! lots of pool, drinks in hand, getting our tans on, and enjoying the weather!
7. Do you have your first song as a couple picked?
I thought I had it picked,
I was going to do "I Love You This Big" By Scotty McCreery but now I am not so sure.
Any suggestions anyone?
8. Do you have your favors? if so, What are they if you don't mind sharing?
Yes I have our favors picked out, now if you asked me if they are ordered. That would be a negatron. I promise one day I will just sit & plan my wedding but until that day, pass. I told you all, it seriously just stresses me out & i just quit. It is not a good trait to have when trying to do something like this. lol
Something like these.
9. What is your most stressful moment in wedding planning?
Honestly the WHOLE planning is stressful. The easiest part for me was wedding dress shopping & bridesmaid shopping. It was super simple. I knew exactly what I wanted & tried it on & said Yes. that easy, but the rest of it. Including WHERE i wanna get married has been stressful.
10. what is the one advice you would give other soon to be brides?
The one advice I wish someone told me earlier {not saying that I would have listened} but I would tell them when the day comes, NOTHING else matters in the world besides you & your man. that is all that matters, is that moment, that day you get to spend with each other. Soak it all in, sit back & see the small details. If someone can't make it, don't get mad it really is just all about you two.
Last words,
Come October 13. I will no longer be a single girl but a married lady!! Scary to think, but I am looking forward to it all. If you want to follow along in the journey, come by & say hi.
I love meeting new people.
Thank you Eryka for allowing me to take over your blog!!!
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Jessica, thanks so much for guest posting you are amazing. I can't wait to see your wedding photos. I know it will be gorgeous! Congratss!!!!--Eryka